Thursday, 16 July 2026

SALTHILL PROM AND MY MIND MIX A MIGHTY COCKTAIL!

... a line of gold lit up along the length of the cloud, a shimmering rim of brilliance running across the entire opening of Galway Bay.

 

I had a bit of a moment the other day. With an hour to kill before a meeting in town I drove to Salthill, walked across the car park to the Prom and stood on a rock on the sea wall.

The early evening air was cool and clear. There was not a breath of wind. Under the fading light of a clear blue sky the water in the bay lay perfectly still, a silvery sheen pockmarked by bobbing bunches of seaweed.

Climbing down the rocks I walked along the beach, until I was beyond Palmer’s Rock. The sun was sinking behind a massive wall of dark cloud, towering high into the west, rising from the horizon until it occupied a third of the sky.

As the sun disappeared behind this vast grey barrier, a line of gold lit up along the cloud’s upper edge, a shimmering rim of brilliance running across the entire opening of Galway Bay.

In contrast to this dazzling line of light, the wall of cloud below turned black. Had you just arrived as a stranger in the place I stood, you might well believe that this water vapour was in fact stone; that Galway Bay was a lake, edged by mountains high and mighty, from Black Head to Bearna.

Even though I know a cloud when I see one, something primal deep inside me double checked to make sure that this black monolith was not a tidal wave, rushing to consume us all.

No. Nothing as dramatic as that. So calm, in fact, that the ocean’s edge became indistinguishable from the beach. As the tide edged out it left a glistening shine on the sand, while dusk’s light bounced off the motionless ocean, appearing as a blend of mercury and mirrors.

Despite the roar of traffic in the background and the hordes walking along the Prom, I still managed to find my own space and peace down there.

Staring at a tiny lump of sand, watching as the water lapped over it and receded, waiting, watching, waiting, watching, wondering when will come that moment when the tide might turn.

It’s what I do; what I did that evening and have done everywhere I’ve lived in the West of Ireland. I watch the tide and drift into peace.

Neither Mindfulness nor Meditation, and yet equally both, I have no desire to put a label on it.

I stared for hours at the sunken rocks of Bunowen Bay and the dunes of Doonloughan when I lived in west Connemara. For years in north Mayo I've watched the tide turn along Ross beach, and lost myself many a time in the utter splendour and endless beauty of Kilcummin back strand.

Yet all these natural wonders and altered mental states were only the precursor to my moment. As is often the way, my mind used tide-staring as a trigger to my past.

Adrift within the calmest moment the Atlantic seaboard could ever offer, I suddenly felt lost at sea, washed overboard by a freak wave of emotion.

Replacing my physical vision with a reel of memories, my mind ran a major film event in front of my eyes, showing me reruns of many of the varied events in the last 34 years of my life that have played out on Salthill Prom.

The night in August 1992, when I sat there on the rocks with my new-found friend, as we decided to stay; to try and find a home and make a life here in Galway.

The day when, seven years later, having failed in and fled from America, I stumbled along the Prom, searching for stability, soaking up familiarity.

The night in 1993 when I fell out of Vagabonds and sat on the sea wall with my beautiful date, stole a kiss, sipped whiskey from a naggin, felt thrilled at the opportunities the night ahead offered, and then dropped my house keys into the deep dark void between the rocks.

The day I walked to Gentian Hill believing I would never again take a step without back pain, and the day when I realised it was gone.

The countless out-loud talks I’ve had with myself, like the crazy guy you don’t want to sit next to on the bus. Open dialogues that escape my mind, transforming into voice, in your space and face, as I walk alone along the Prom.

Back in 1992, a few days after my decision to try and build a life in Galway, the weather finally changed and my jaw dropped. Up until then, fog and low cloud had obscured the Burren, so great was my joy when for the first time I saw the sensual purple hills of County Clare.

Thousands of walks along the Prom: my lifeline; my mental health; my physical saviour.

The Prom lifted my spirits, clearing my head of the detritus of everyday life. Along its length I spilled my emotional angst, vitriol and bile, so that by time I returned home my mind was free, my spirit cleansed, my body alive and tingling.

Meteorological marvels have sometimes allowed me to make out smoke rising from a chimney far across the bay in Ballyvaughan. A beam of sunlight picks out a field of rich deep green above Bell Harbour, and when the light shimmers and glows in just right way, all three Aran islands can float into view, vibrating as melting mirages in the distance.

I was silly to be surprised by my moment. I had not been to the Prom for many months and was foolish to underestimate my love for it and Galway Bay.

My heart was almost washed away by the flood of memories. My soul lifted like a kite in the wind, tears swelled in my eyes.

Having paid my respects to the Prom and my past I gave thanks, turned around and walked on.

©Charlie Adley 

16.07.2026

Saturday, 11 July 2026

Despite FIFA, this World Cup has brought us all closer together!

 Pics thanks to Bouna/Bendel family

Last night my brother (more a fan of rugby and cricket where England is concerned) sent a message to our Siblings WhatsApp group, asking if my sister and I would be watching the England v Norway game.

I’m sure he knew I would be. He said that they had friends coming over for dinner, but would be insisting that either they left early or stayed to watch the match.

My sister (a massive fan of Wimbledon but not football, although she watched the entire Mexico game) explained how her young grandson was going to watch with his parents at friends, while she would be watching with her little granddaughter on a sleepover.

Apart from weddings and funerals I cannot think of any other event in which we would all be involved simultaneously.

Despite the worst efforts of FIFA, this World Cup has achieved what all previous have done: it has brought us all closer together, as a species.

With more countries qualifying than ever before, the group stage felt bloated and lacking in jeopardy, but it also gave us magic moments.

Hands up here: I didn’t even know CuraƧao was a place. I thought it was just an ingredient in cocktails, but the footage of the TV journalist reporting from a bar in the tiny Caribbean island at the precise moment that their team scored a goal was priceless.

The place exploded with exuberant joy, leaving the journo no choice but to join in, leaping up and down like a 7 year-old.

The world smiled at that moment.

We’ve seen minnows Cape Verde holding mighty World Champions Argentina to a draw for 111 minutes, and on the way learned that the place we describe as ‘Cape Verdy’ is known by its own people as ‘Cap Verd.’

Small details that matter a great deal if you come from Cape Verde. 

As an Englishman living in the Republic of Ireland I no longer go to the pub to watch England games.

Apparently it wasn’t Oscar Wilde who said:

“The problem is the English can't remember history, while the Irish can't forget it.”

Whoever it was nailed it. After 35 years here, living with the daily, often hourly challenge of being slagged off for things the English did during their occupation of this island, I no longer find it amusing to be heckled and belittled throughout a game.

Instead I choose to stay home, and enjoy rare times in which I’m grateful for social media, sharing the excitement with my English friends and family elsewhere around the world. 

As for tonight’s match I have my doubts. There are massive parallels between being a Chelsea fan and an England fan. My beloved Blues will beat Barcelona on Wednesday and lose to a tiny team on Saturday.

Norway are in no way a tiny team, but England’s victory over Mexico felt like their final. The intensity of our celebrations and physical exertions were massive, and if we lose to Norway tonight, it’ll match a pattern that has existed for decades: struggle out of the groups; win a major knockout game; start to believe the crazed hype; get overexcited and then lose.

History shows us that the Vikings tend to excel against the English. If Norway win, having already beaten the legendary football force that is Brazil, I will feel gutted, but also delighted for them, along with my friends Line and John in Oslo.

FIFA’s gangster leader Johnny Babyface (aka Gianni Infantino) cares not a jot for the Beautiful Game. He is interested only in money and power.

Hence rules were changed so that Ronaldo’s red card in Portugal’s final qualifying game was suspended, along with the mighty scandal of USA striker Balogun's red card reversal, after intervention from Trump.

Did the president really care about the USA Soccer team? No, as ever you have to follow the money: take a look at the crazily inflated prices the US TV networks were able to charge for advertising space during USA games, and boom! You’ve found the lobby that drove that decision.

 

In the tradition of Morecambe and Wise, here’s a little poem wot I wrote to show how I feel:


Gianni Babycakes decides what is or is not
Whichever way he dives you know he cops the lot.
Seems that Human Rights Violations
Help him choose his host nations
From Russia to Qatar,
USA to Saudi Arabiaaaar      (ouch!)
Gianni is on a mission
To treat us fans with derision.

This colyoom isn’t about the corrupt greed that powers FIFA.
It’s about the pure joy and excitement felt by lovers of the game all over the world.

The pictures here are from friends of mine in London. A Spanish/English family who have cooked a different nation’s food each night, depending on who plays that day. 

When the parents went away for the weekend the kids carried on and cooked for each nation each night. 

When Jude Bellingham was asked how he felt about being booed and jeered as he got off the plane in Mexico City, he smiled and said he loved it, because he admired the passion Mexicans felt for football.

We love loving football. It unites families, friends and nations, offering us all a unique camaraderie (unless you’re Irish.)

I still can’t see anyone beating France, and in the pit of my stomach I see England being knocked out tonight, but I love being wrong, almost as much as I love football.

Maybe, as the landlord of my village pub ironically declared each time I’ve walked in over the last three weeks:

“It’s coming home!”

I very much doubt it, but in the true tradition of the Beautiful Game, let’s hope that at the end of the day, football is the winner. 

 

©Charlie Adley

11.07.2026.